Don't Waste More Time ~ Start Over Programs Are Designed to Help!
If you don't know how to find good relationships or have been consistently unhappy in love...if you repeatedly choose or attract the wrong men, have bad dates~or don't date at all because you think you'll end up with another bad guy...if you have been alone in your relationships or felt invisible or unheard...if you are exhausted and drained from being in love...or don't know how to really get over your old relationship and move on...if you really just don't know who to trust after your breakup, then your life probably feels a little out of control in some way. If so, my Start Over programs are exactly what you need.
I help women gain a solid understanding of destructive relationships and negative relationship patterns and I give shocking insight and solid strategies that last a lifetime, so you won't repeat the past again. I also help young women who are new to dating, espcially if they have not had good role models or if they had good roles models but simply were never taught sufficient or effective dating skills for their particular kind of personality. (Only certain women attract and are attracted to destructive men).
I help you develop self protective strategies that will work, that validate, and that free you from repeating negative cycles, or starting new ones that can harm you. When you want the pain to stop, when you want to stop yourself from attracting toxic men and bad relationships, when you are finally ready to stop going in circles with noncommittal men, or going back and forth over the same patterns with the same guy, then you have to do something different, something you've probably never done before in quite the same way~you have to invest in yourself. Draw the line now, today, and get the strategies and systems that can help you figure out how this stuff happens, how to recover from it, and how to stop it for good.
I will show you how to stop the pain from the past and prevent another bad relationship, and I'll give you invaluable information about toxic love, from how it happens and why it happened to you~to how to spot it and avoid it in the future. This kind of training & coaching isn't easy to find~it's very specific and it requires you to make a new promise to yourself that you will do what it takes to get the change you are after. You start taking charge of your life by getting connected to the right information and acting on it when it is presented to you. The other choice, of course, is to stay stuck in the same place or in the misery of repeating the past; lets face it, the cost of staying stuck is far greater than the price of change.
To start building peace in your life, and in love, you need new skills and you need someone who understands that getting found by a destructive man had nothing to do with you having low self-esteem. That's a fallacy of composition. I hope you will allow me to help you finish with the past and create a different kind of future, one that doesn't require you to admit to a weakness you never had, and one that doesn't expect you to change who you are, or not fumble. I can confidently say that you have come to the right place if you are serious about making a positive change with your life, and want that change to last forever.
BUT, I'M A STRONG, DRIVEN WOMAN WITH HIGH SELF-ESTEEM...
"I'm a professional, successful woman and don't have money issues...how did I end up in this mess...why can't I finish this break up...how can someone like me benefit from your programs?"
First off, strong women with high self-esteem can just as easily attract destructive/toxic men, it is then that the self-esteem suffers, not the other way around, but we often don't hear this scenario (further isolating strong, powerful women from seeking help). You are "caught" by destructive guys because they are drawn to challenge (what's more challenging than winning over a confident, established woman?), and as these kind of men are attracted to what they do not have in themselves, your high self-value, self-worth, and strength pulls him in and the pursuit is on! After he has your heart and emotion, he will be irritated by the power and strength you have and he will work to undermine you and your confidence. This can be slow and subtle.
Women who get caught out by toxic men aren't just easy victims or the helpless kind; destructive men are master manipulators. They are not easy to spot and they are hard to get away from. They fool counselors, psychologists, lawyers, judges, co-workers, employers, clients, parents, their own children~and even themselves sometimes! It's as if they wear masks when they are appearing to function normally. They can create a subtle, hazy, uncertain sense, an off-centeredness that causes you to second-guess yourself or what he said/did. You can feel a drastic contrast between who you thought him to be or how he appears in general~and what you experience, but you can't put your finger on it exactly. Not easy stuff to wrap your head around. In terms of your relationship with money, yes, it may be fine, and I hope it is and that you have been fortunate enough to not have it played on, but typically if you've been with a destructive/toxic type, the man and money traps are interrelated, whether or not you see it right now. You cannot be depleted in one area, without being affected in the other. Same goes for trying to fix it, if you focus on one of the problems without addressing the other, you will not fully recover from the past and you will not position yourself for success with men (or more success with money) in the future; you will, instead, continue to attract the same type of situation repeatedly. Money issues aren't necessarily all about debt or lack, sometimes, money issues come in the form of giving money away, over-delivering on your time or products, not taking promotions, or not consistently increasing your income, or things of that nature. It may also be that your career suffered because of the man you were with, or because you lost time or status at work. You may have given him money or invested in businesses or other things that you otherwise would not have done. You may have not paid attention to the finances, thinking he was honest and handling everything above board. Your divorce or break up may be costing you a fortune because you are continually negotiating with a man who is unreasonable or who spins things after they are agreed, keeping you tied up in court. He may retaliate against your independence by making you pay financially or by putting you through court hell. These are all money issues in hiding, that are linked to the man you picked.
You do not have to address everything all at once if you realize both issues are there, but in my experience, the connection comes up naturally and it's usually surprising. You can still make changes in your love life and leave your money life alone if you wish, that's why I split my programs into sections. This allows you to address one area, and if it does turn up the other issue, we can explore that if you wish, just expect that you may find that when you uncover the real relationship or breakup patterns and troubles, that it actually highlights some interesting things about how you handle money and your career~or how you don't!
It is equally important that you to know how to respond in ways that discourage the wrong guys from pursuing you~or that shut down the ones who won't let go (with confidence and a strategy). These are some of the many things my training and coaching programs address.
Successful, professional women can get just as caught in the man/money traps as any other woman, but women with means or solid careers have far more to lose, and many lose a lot before they find their way out of the madness for good. I can help you shortcut the process and set yourself on a better path so it never happens again. You will reestablish self trust and you will know which men to trust when you start dating again, so your radar will be fully on and working this time. I welcome you to contact me about your particular situation at email@example.com.