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If you are consistently unhappy in love...if you repeatedly choose or attract the wrong men, have bad dates~or are hesitant to date because you think you'll catch another bad guy...if you are typically alone in your relationships or feel invisible...if you are exhausted and drained from being in love...or don't know how to get over him or who to trust after a breakup, and your money is a mess, then your life probably feels a little outta' control~and you are probably aren't connecting the man drama in your life, to any money drama you may have.
Women who attract the Mr. Wrongs have very desirable, high quality relationship traits, and entrepreneurial traits~and you are more prone to be targeted for relationships by men on the make, and men who are more self-centered, and less invested in emotional connection, relationships and love. As good as it is to know you have the same traits of an entrepreneur, it isn't such good news if you already are one...
Successful, high earning women get just as caught in the man/money traps as women without careers or money, and their lives are equally affected by bad relationships, but they have more to lose, and many lose a lot. When you aren't a high earner yet, you may be able to get by financially where others have to live paycheck to paycheck to survive, but for every woman, the overall impact is the same.
Your relationship with men and your relationship with money are interrelated, whether you see it or not right now. You cannot be depleted in one area, without being deleted in the other. Same goes for trying to fix it, if you focus on one of the problems without addressing the other, you will not fully recover from the past and you will not position yourself for success with men or money in the future; you will, instead, continue to attract the same type of situation repeatedly.
If you've had bad love, especially more than once, your wallet has been affected as much as your heart. They both need to be understood a little differently, and repaired.
When you have toxic love, constantly being in survival mode, having little joy, no disposable income, too much debt, or too much spending on empty things is all common, and exhausting. Live like this for too long and you'll be depressed and sick in no time, resigning to accept less and less for yourself every year, (ie-and thinking you'll just choose more carefully next time...).
Yes, it's possible you have just been unlucky in love, but if there is a pattern of money issues, a guy that you took way too long to get over, or more than one Mr. Wrong has made his way into your heart, your bed, or your purse, luck is not the problem.
YOUR RADAR IS WAY OFF
There seems nothing else to do but suffer through it, because no one really seems to understand~but I do.
I get it because I've been exactly where you are...I've walked the same walk
and that's why I know that the regular dating, relationship, and money advice isn't going to work for you (it didn't for me either).
We are different~YOU are different, and your situation demands different needs because you have had a different kind of experience, an unusual kind of relationship that most people can't relate to.
you aren't stupid, you didn't deserve it, it wasn't easy to see it,
& you don't have to feel embarrassed about it
I can help you put your money, dating, and man troubles behind you, for good!
Get the details about my upcoming Workshop here
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